How to Deliver a Eulogy

Are you tasked with delivering the eulogy after the cremation services Hellertown, PA, of a close friend or family member? 

A eulogy is one of the most critical components of a funeral service as it highlights the personality and achievements of the departed soul. It’s not something you can afford to mess up or do casually. 

But if you’re determined to do it well, here’s everything you need to know to write and deliver a perfect eulogy. 

1. Prepare the Eulogy 

First things first, take a pen and jot down your thoughts on a paper or tablet. It’s natural to get flooded with all the thoughts and memories of the departed soul. It wouldn’t be surprising if some of these memories you may not have thought about in a very long time. 

Transfer these memories from your mind to the paper. Put them in order to give a professional layout to your eulogy. 

2. Set the Tone 

As for the tone of your eulogy, it can be humorous or serious, or both. You knew your loved one, so you know best what is and isn’t appropriate to honor their legacy. It’s best to strive for balance. A eulogy shouldn’t be all serious and it also shouldn’t be too humorous. 

3. Take Help from Other Eulogies 

With just a single click, you’ll find tons of well-crafted examples of eulogies on the internet. Go through a few of them and get whatever useful resources you need to complete your eulogy. 

4. Complete the Rough Draft 

Your eulogy should be divided into four major steps: 

A brief introduction of yourself and your relationship to the deceased. Then write a mini-biography of your loved one including their birthday, family members, where they were raised, went to school, were married, etc. 

Next, write memorable stories and memories that you would want the audience to know. Let them know who your loved one was, what was their life story, their notable achievements, accomplishments, and what were they most proud of in life. 

The third part should include highlighting their services for the community or in their respective field. It should honor them in the best way possible. 

And finally, say thank you to close it. Add a couple of lines reflecting they’d never be forgotten and how their legacy will live on in the hearts of the loved ones.   

The eulogy should be about 1000-1500 words, but this is not a rule by any means. In general, you can expect it to take you approximately five to ten minutes to read. 

Don’t forget to take the feedback of a close family member or friend. This will help you add or remove some parts to make it sound more professional and captivating. 

5. Practice 

An old adage goes that practice makes perfect. After completing it, practice your eulogy at least a couple of times before the day of the funeral. If possible, rehearse your speech in front of a couple of friends or relatives or in front of a mirror. This will help you tremendously if you are nervous about speaking in front of a large group of people after cremation services Hellertown, PA.